07 February 2011

To drink or not to drink?

Good morning,

I came across this picture the other day and literally can't stop laughing every time I see it. Thought it might start your Monday off right. source

But here's my favorite pup, obviously (post water slurp). 


I have the day off today (!) so it will definitely be a Michael and me day <3

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After a conversation about drinking, I started to think about how my relationship with alcohol and how it's changed over the years. 


Like many college students, I drank a lot. A typical weekend consisted of [heavily] drinking Thursday - Saturday. We'd "pre-game" to insure we were arriving to a party tipsy and further drink throughout the night. The next day I'd generally spend in bed (until about 12pm), eat a massive drunken brunch, clean the evidence from the night before, then start making plans for the next night. 

To be quite honest, I could drink the amount of a 200 pound man. And that to me was cool. I still ran marathons throughout college so considered myself "healthy". But looking back, I would have been so much healthier without the binge drinking

I'm not sure what clicked or when I stopped going out for the intention of getting sch-wasted (maybe I just realized I'm not 21 anymore), but I have a much deeper respect for my body. Perhaps it's a coincidence that at the same time I also rid my kitchen of diet foods (and disordered eating thoughts) and focused on food that's actually whole food. But that's another topic in itself..

Today I still go out. I go out to bars. I go dancing. And I still love wine. But what's changed is my relationship with drinking. No longer do I consumer certain drinks because they will get me drunk (hello nasty cheap college vodka). I chose a glass (or two) of wine because I genuinely like the way it tastes or splurge on a skinny margarita, because face it - those things are delicious. 

Do I feel awkward around others drinking heavily? Not any more. At first, I was annoyed when they 283,923th person asked me why I wasn't drinking more. But like any habit that people don't understand or practice themselves, they will ask (hello, healthy eating!). 

Am I perfect? No way. And I'm okay with that. I've never been an all-or-nothing type anyways. From time to time, I split a bottle of wine with a few friends and get a little giddy. But tipsy does not equal wasted, and I'm very fortunate I now know the difference.

So here few thoughts/tips on how I still have a crazy fun social life and still love my liver.

- Next time you're at a bar take a quick scan of how many people are actually holding drinks in their hands. Yes, many may have just finished a drink but you don't know that for certain. Similarly, if you don't have one people aren't going to point and laugh at you. What do they know? And unlike you, they aren't scanning the room for non-drinkers.

- Ask for your water, soda water, etc. in a glass (rather than plastic cup) and garnished with a lime. 

- Before you go out, make the next day's to-do list. This will reinforce the importance of not being hungover the next day when friends are shoving tequila shots in your face.

- Lie. There have been times when relentless friends simply can not comprehend that a 10-mile morning run or yoga class is more important. In times like these, I've just said "No thanks. I've had a migraine all day." Who would know the difference?

- Splurge on a fancy schmancy martini or margarita over delicious food from time to time. We all know I love my skinny margaritas, but these days they are a treat rather than a live-saving necessity.

- Consider a white wine spritzer. These are my new favorites. Not only are they incredibly refreshing, they're 50% less alcohol than wine (half wine, half soda water). So if you order two, that's only 1 glass of wine.

- Savor your wine and drink it as if you were at a tasting. At my recent wine tasting party, I probably tried 6-7 types of wine, but only tasted. This probably added up to 1-2 glasses max.


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OK, onto some food :-)

Last night I made a new dish based on Lauren's recipe. Twas fantastic.

>>Mexican-style Cheesy Chili over Spaghetti Squash<<
(serves 5-6)

This dish is incredibly cheesy tasting but so healthy you almost think your taste buds are playing tricks on you. But aren't those foods the best? 
Ingredients:
1 large spaghetti squash
1 package ground extra lean turkey breast
1 can diced tomatoes w/ mild green chilies
1/2 jar salsa
1 can black beans
1/2 cup fat-free cottage cheese
4 wedges light Laughing Cow cheese
1 T chili powder
1 t cumin
1/2 t black pepper


Directions:
(Squash)
Boil squash in large pot for 30 mins (skip to turkey directions while boiling)
Slice in half, remove seeds with fork, and scrape squash into bowl with fork


While squash is cooking..

Spray pan with non-stick spray and brown turkey over medium heat
Add tomatoes/chilies and beans and satay until cooked through

Add remaining ingredients and cook over low heat until cheese melts

(Secret ingredient!)


Enjoy!

Protein-packed, nutritious, and absolutely delicious (if you're into cheesy Mexican tasting meals. Who isn't though?) I can't get over how unhealthy it tastes

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Well I'm going to enjoy my breakfast and coffee and relax until BodyPump. 

Low-fat Greek yogurt with leftover fruit from the blogger party


Have a wonderful day!

*What are your favorite healthy foods that taste not-so-healthy?*

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I'll leave you with some funny pics from Saturday night...





24 comments:

  1. I'm the same as you, I used to drink a lot in college, but not anymore. I agree with all of your tips! I used to get pineapple juice with grenadine at bars (not low cal, but tasty!) and sip on that all night :)

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  2. I definitely used to drink way too much in college, and even for a time after college. I don't drink like that often anymore, but a few times a year I do get a little carried away and overindulge in cheap beer and ridic shots at a bar. Its not something I like to do regularly, and the other times I go out during the year I get one or two tasty, good quality drinks and sip on seltzer the rest of the night.

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  3. You're scaring me with my teen about to go to college! :)

    I think we just grow up and realize the headache the next day is not worth it.

    Tell me more about this yeast and why you add it to your food, I'm curious!

    Hope all is well and you're not getting too much snow in DC! Let me know when you're in NY, we'll meet up for lunch or dinner!

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  4. I'm still in college, but I am so over the drinking scene right now. I just feel like I've seen it, done it, and drank it all before. I guess I had my realization early? I love waking up without a hangover so much more than getting hammered and slamming a bunch of drunk food late at night!

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  5. Fantastic post. I drank in my day too - a few times, but now I've lost my taste for it. I do worry about young women who get wasted though - the dangers they may face and when you get older you can suffer more than liver problems, but I won't bore you with all that. I just applaud you on your decision.

    That picture of the dog made me crack up too.

    Your recipe looks yummy and thanks for sharing.

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  6. Cuuute dog pictures! (That first definitely made me laugh out loud).

    I liked this post a lot--it's so true that a lot of times we feel "peer pressured" to drink as much as everyone else! I've slowly moved away from heavy drinking but I feel like I am one of the few in my age group! But I do like the options you gave...I may have to try some of those. :)

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  7. I laughed out loud in work at that dog! Brilliant!

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  8. You look great in the pics from your party!

    I HATE being hung over. Hate, hate, hate it. I think I drank so much in college and my early 20s because I didn't get hung over. But now... no way. A hangover is enough to limit me to a couple of drinks. Just thinking about it makes me mad. Off to drink some water ;)

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  9. I'm still in college, and I have to say that being a lightweight pays of SO MUCH in the hangover department. I'm not a big drinker, but 4 drinks (which is still a lot, but not for most of my peers) and I'm gone. It's help me learn my limits very quickly, because that doesn't leave much of a margin for error. I try to stick with 2-3 drinks: still enough to be "collegy" and fun, but not enough to make me sloppy or sick.

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  10. I definitely am starting to feel the same way as you do now about drinking. I drank A LOT in college, but now, it's just not fun to wake up feeling horrible. Thanks for the tips! They were all really helpful!

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  11. I must agree with you on the progression towards moderate drinking. I used to go out and just get wasted 2-3 night a week, but in the past few months I've come to realize that I can enjoy all of the positive effects of alcohol and have a great time by sticking to 2-3 drinks over the course of the night. In fact, I find that when I go over that amount it's not as fun anymore.
    I think BAC charts are a really good tool to get to the right "drunk"- simply choose your level of effects and aim to have the corresponding number of drinks.
    Scroll down on this page to click the pdf links for the bac charts:
    http://www.healthsystem.virginia.edu/internet/news/archives05/baccards.cfm

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  12. In college I only looked at drinking as a way to gain liquid confidence and be drunk.Now...if it doesn't taste good, I don't drink it! People can usually expect me to be the one sippin' water. I just say I'm the DD or something like that!

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  13. I kinda like the lie idea! No one really will know :)

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  14. lol! that pic I seriously cant get enough of : )

    I dont drink alot either, pretty much just wine ; ) sometimes bacardi and diet, I just dont like to drink and if I do alot I feel so horrible the next day, it ruins my whole day ; p

    Hope you have a great day love! xoxo

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  15. Quit drinking 21years ago Not a drink since, even the ones I "like" Quit smoking too Can't say I miss either one and my life is better Quiting ain't that big a deal, you just don't drink

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  16. I used to drink like a sailor- and I thought it was cool. I was shocked at how the weight fell off when I started drinking less (duh!) and how much easier it was to make plans the next day.

    Now I'm a wine girl all the way and I have found people seriously don't care if I drink or not.

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  17. I have a similar history with drinking. In college, drinking was basically all me and my friends did on the weekends. Now, I covet my Saturday mornings. I absolutely LOVE waking up not being hungover to I can make it to my 830 spin class and can go through the day feeling great as opposed to feeling like I got run over by a bus. Oh how things change :)

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  18. My story is super similar to yours! And I definitely have a few friends who were drinking buddies who don't understand. Health and productive weekends trumps drinking anyday! :)

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  19. I'm always surprised when I see people as small as you hold down a lot of alcohol. I'm a total lightweight, so I don't really drink (I like to say that I "taste."). Good ideas on how to have fun while being health-conscious!

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  20. Lots of people drink way too much in college. I am such a lightweight, so I never really went so far as to binge. I definitely drank too much and had my fair share of hangovers, but I could never pregame and make it through a party.

    I really like your tips. The only other one I would add is to take cash and leave your card at home. By only bringing a 20, you can only really buy a drink or two and allows for the 10 mile run :)

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  21. Ive never been a drinker. I have had maybe 3 drinks since turning 21. I was raised by an alcoholic step father, so alcohol is not too exciting for me. I hate the smell, and I cant stand the flavor of a lot of them.
    That dish looks sooo yummy! I am totally making it next time I get some spaghetti squash!

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  22. i dont drink but most of it comes from the fact that alcoholism is so prevalent in both sides of my family. my brothers never drank growing up so it was always inspiration for me not to either. a few times i have had some wine but i didnt like the way i felt..im not sure if i got an allergic reaction or not but i felt really angry and had full blown panic attacks... lol

    xoxo

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  23. When I got pregnant the first time, and couldn't drink for 9 months, I realized it's possible. Also, I went to Vegas while I was pregnant, and it was such a different experience than in the past. I woke up every day feeling refreshed. It was so nice to never have a hangover.

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